Coronavirus Italia- My Admiration and Marvel

It’s hard not to be acutely aware of the ravages of COVID-19. Every day, whether through consuming media or general conversations with friends and colleagues, we are being inundated with information tied to the Coronavirus. We have become as aware of coronavirus Italia and China as we are with the USA.  This blog was penned to acknowledge dear friends and a country at the heart of the pandemic.  Coronavirus Italia and my admiration and marvel at their spirit and resolve.

Given the severity of this virus, it has been fascinating to observe how people are reacting to this event, the words they use to describe their thoughts and feelings, and the actions they are taking daily in living their lives.  

Some reactions leave us confused, some bring out our empathy or sympathy, and others are admired and we marvel at the way they handle the moment.  

This post is about admiration and marvel.

Last October I had one of the best cultural experiences of my life.  An experience so rich, it continues to add value to my life today.  

I was part of a workshop in Italy comprised of highly accomplished men and women in Italian business.  We spent 55 hours over a four-day period working, sharing meals and enjoying Italian wine in the evening.  No time was spent outside of the group during these four days. 

Conversations were thoughtful and heartfelt.  Vulnerabilities were exposed and bonds were formed.  I felt as if I was part of a big Italian family and I loved every minute of the experience.  

It was an insight into a culture and people that I would have never garnered in five traditional vacations to Italy. They truly value their relationships with others and you feel the value they place in them.

The day we departed the workshop, we set up a WhatsApp chat group to keep in touch.  Did I expect great follow-through with this group? Not really, not at the time. I didn’t expect much because I understand how life’s forces take over and contact diminishes over time. Intentions to keep in touch are almost always genuine for most, but life just gets in the way and becomes more forceful than our desire to stay in contact. 

Well, that’s not how this great group of Italian friends live their lives.  Our chat group has remained strong and the desire to see them again grows stronger, whether I visit Italy or they visit here, I look forward to the next chapter. 

What has been most impressive to me during this short friendship is hearing their thoughts and concerns, determination, love of country and fellow citizens during this difficult time dealing with the Coronavirus Italia.  The virus is wreaking havoc, but it is not penetrating their spirit!  

So why am I writing about them and their struggle with coronavirus Italia? It’s simple; I hurt for them.  I’m inspired by them and their spirit, and knowing they are handling tough times in a way we all could benefit.  No crying or complaining, they remain positive knowing this too will soon pass.   They are focused on the things they can control; moving forward daily, never backwards; loving their country, and spending great time with family, friends, and loved ones.  They share pictures of their lives and experiences during this challenging time.  Their spirit is undeniable.

What an example to learn from!

Just thinking and praying for their well-being the other day reminded me of Jim Valvano’s ESPY speech.  Most have seen it, however, just in case you haven’t or it’s been a long time here’s the link:

I remember the night I was watching it live.  It was a powerful message that crafted “a full day” (as Valvano would describe) for me in such a short time.  In ten minutes, his speech made me laugh, think and it moved me to tears.  It’s a timeless speech that will be as relevant 20 years from now as it was that night or is today.  And, it has even more meaning today as a result of my new friendships.

The underlying message was to never give up.  That’s what I see with my new friends, embodying the spirit of “Never Give Up” every day!

My friends in Italy have been a blessing and added richness to my life and I thank them for unknowingly giving this American an extra layer of appreciation for many things I already value.

So, Marco G., Cinzia, Gianluca, Raffaella G, Raffaella Z, Rino, Gianni, Ilaria, Maurizia, Giuliana, Gian Maria, Angela and Giovanna.

Thank you for just being you, living life with spirit, and adding value to others in tough times as well as good times.

As Robert Schuller said, “Tough times don’t last, but tough people do.”  You all are as tough as they come!  Coronavirus Italia will be defeated.